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Pandarus: the gatekeeper of consent

by Harper Eliot Posted on 30/10/2012

Chaucer’s main source material when he wrote his epic poem Troilus and Criseyde was Boccaccio’s Il Filostrato. In Il Filostrato Troilio is a rather straightforward young man who pursues the beautiful Cressida and meets with little resistance. Their coming together … Continue reading →

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Harper Eliot’s Guide to Surviving Drop Alone

by Harper Eliot Posted on 10/05/2012

In light of several conversations on twitter and some of my own personal experiences, I have been considering drop. Sub-drop in particular, although top-drop too. And, as I feel sure exist, various other kinds of drop. For those of you … Continue reading →

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