Category Archives: Kink, Fetish, BDSM & Other Transgressive Sexualities

The User Manual

The personal user manual is an idea I got from Cunning Minx on her podcast, Polyamory Weekly. It’s a great podcast, and I love Minx’s no-bullshit, straightforward approach to non-monogamy. Her own user manual is a great read, and acted … Continue reading

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Brutalism

Last week on Bad Porn Club, I mentioned that I have a fetish for brutalist architecture. I’m not sure exactly how we’re defining ‘fetish’ at the moment; some say it’s simply being turned on by something inanimate; for others a … Continue reading

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Submissive, adj.

For four years exactly – from March 2009 to March 2013 – I identified, almost unquestioningly, with the term ‘submissive’, as a noun. ‘A submissive’. That was me. It sat right, it turned me on, it gave me what I … Continue reading

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Three Sketches in London

Sketches: 1. Chinatown Tucked tight in the corner, shadowed in oak, seconds ticked over as his fingers traced my neck. The skin and bones; the nerves and veins. My flesh malleable, caught in the pinch of his hunger. He found … Continue reading

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Reading for Remittance Girl: Tourist

I just thought I should post to notify you darling readers that Raziel Moore – of The Erotic Writer – and I recently read a story for the Remittance Girl Podcast. Tourist is a story in four parts, two from … Continue reading

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The Little Boy Who Lives Down the Lane

WARNING: this piece contains themes of rape, kidnap, and abortion. Please use your best judgement when deciding whether to read on. Standing and wondering, and remembering tears falling from open eyes, like the drops that splash from the ceiling, and … Continue reading

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