Category Archives: Articles & News

British Summer Time

by Harper Eliot Posted on 18/06/2013

Whilst we wish for sun and Summer and swimming and sweat, and watch the days roll by overcast and grey, this image still makes me smile; with a touch of longing. Love Bites Taken on the Southbank, London, outside the … Continue reading →

Posted in Art, Articles & News, London, Personal Experiences, Photography | Tagged blue, bridge, British Summer Time, couple, National Theatre, Queen Elizabeth Hall, South Bank Centre, Southbank, Summer, Thames, yellow | Leave a comment

Joan Price’s Three Lists of 10s

by Harper Eliot Posted on 15/06/2013

It was listening to Joan Price on the Sex Nerd Sandra podcast that I was introduced to the three lists idea. Joan suggested that when dating, a good way to go about it is to break down the things you … Continue reading →

Posted in Articles & News, Dating, Online Dating, Personal Experiences, Relationships & Dating | Tagged dating, Joan Price, must-haves, non-monogamy, podcasts, projects, relationships | 4 Comments

An Open Letter to Modern Female Feminists

by Harper Eliot Posted on 11/06/2013

Dear feminists, I am a twenty-three year old, white, middle class, cis-gendered female, living in London. And I cannot, in all good conscience, call myself a feminist. Yes, I do believe that I should have the same rights and the … Continue reading →

Posted in Articles & News, Life Lessons, Personal Experiences | Tagged equality, female, feminism, feminists, male, men, modern women, suffragettes, women | 16 Comments

The Biggest Thank You: I am going to Eroticon USA!

by Harper Eliot Posted on 07/06/2013

If you follow me on twitter, you may have already spotted the big news: I am going to Eroticon USA! I managed to get myself a week off work, and two days ago I booked my flights. I am utterly … Continue reading →

Posted in Articles & News, Eroticon, News, Personal Experiences | Tagged Atlanta, conference, Eroticon, Eroticon USA, fundraising, GoFundMe, thank you, trip | 8 Comments

Being in the Closet(s)

by Harper Eliot Posted on 05/06/2013

Yesterday I read this excellent article by Aggie at Solopoly, about being in or coming out of the poly closet. You can read the article for yourself, but – in a nutshell – it discusses the pros and cons of … Continue reading →

Posted in Articles & News, Life Lessons, Personal Experiences, Relationships & Dating, Writing/Writing Exercises | Tagged being out, colleagues, in the closet, non-monogamy, polyamory, sex writing, work | 4 Comments

News: Bad Porn, Novice Non-Monogamy, and Reading Digests

by Harper Eliot Posted on 01/06/2013

Like Damon Albarn and Alex Turner, I like to think of myself as having fingers in many different pies. Then again, I could just be Ado Annie – a girl who can’t say no. Either way, I have many projects … Continue reading →

Posted in Art, Articles & News, Blogging, News, Podcasts, Published fiction | Tagged alice in wonderland, bad porn club, blogging, Eroticon USA, Life on the Swingset, news, podcast, porn, Sex Bytes, The Reading Press | 2 Comments

From May to December: Reflections on Dating Older Men

by Harper Eliot Posted on 26/04/2013

For the past four years or so, I have been exclusively dating older men. Some just five, or seven, or nine years older, and some… well, significantly older than that. And really, when I say “older men,” I mean those … Continue reading →

Posted in Articles & News, Dating, Life Lessons, Personal Experiences | Tagged dating, experience, May to December, older men, online | 12 Comments

A Token of Gratitude: Send Me to Eroticon USA!

by Harper Eliot Posted on 25/04/2013

My dearest, darling readers and friends – As many of you may know, I am trying to raise money in order to get myself across the pond to Atlanta for Eroticon USA in October. I have already received some amazing … Continue reading →

Posted in Articles & News, Eroticon, News, Personal Experiences | Tagged Atlanta, conference, Eroticon USA, GoFundMe, trip, USA, writers | 3 Comments

Reading for Remittance Girl: Tourist

by Harper Eliot Posted on 17/04/2013

I just thought I should post to notify you darling readers that Raziel Moore – of The Erotic Writer – and I recently read a story for the Remittance Girl Podcast. Tourist is a story in four parts, two from … Continue reading →

Posted in Articles & News, Audio, Kink, Fetish, BDSM & Other Transgressive Sexualities, News | Tagged erotic reading, podcast, Raziel Moore, Remittance Girl, Remittance Girl Podcast, Tourist | Leave a comment

News: Donate, Perv, & Listen

by Harper Eliot Posted on 04/04/2013

It has finally occurred to me that there might just be some people out there, in the world, who do not follow me on Twitter OR Facebook, and – moreover – that these people shouldn’t miss out just because they … Continue reading →